Quick review for a quick read. Leave it to Nina LaCour to tug at my heartstrings every single time I pick up a book from her. For what it’s worth, I did enjoy “We Are Okay” though it wasn’t as strong for me as some of the author’s other narratives (a.k.a “Hold Still”). It’s the story of a young woman named Marin who escapes her life after a series of tragedies and has to come to terms with them as her best friend reunites with her over Winter Break while she’s in college.
I wasn’t surprised by Marin’s actions given that I knew she was in a state of denial, grief, and anguish, but it was the reasons behind those emotions that kept me pushing through the novel to see them in full. I’ll admit that at times the delivery of these story details is uneven and took me some time to push through, but I always respect and appreciate the genuine way LaCour’s able to dig into the raw emotions of her characters. There’s much that haunts Marin, and it takes an exploration of the past meeting the present to bring it together (trading between months of memories and present details). I appreciated the range of emotions and coming to terms that Marin shows through the narrative, and felt for her on the note of her relationships with her mother and grandfather, as well as her best friend Mabel and roommate Hannah. The narrative features a prominent character of color and a lesbian relationship with enough moments to feel for the characters even through the events that affect them. I enjoyed getting to know the range of characters in this book and thought it did a fine job of showcasing the dedication of people around Marin to let her know she wasn’t lost or forgotten, though her journey after her experiences had her mentally wading through some dark places (some of which I’ll admit resonated with me because I’ve been in that headspace as a result of loss – in more ways than one – before. I don’t know if I’d even think to do what Marin did ultimately, but I could see the reasons behind her behavior.)
In the end, it was a solid reading experience for me, a story that I could definitely get behind though it did take some wading through slower, uneven moments in the narrative to get there.
Overall score: 3.5/5 stars.